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Cabinet of Curiosity

I’ve heard of a certain piece of furniture called a curio cabinet but I’ve never really thought about why it is called by that name until tonight. David and I are at Len Sweet’s home on Orcas Island in Washington this week for his last week of classes before his year of dissertation writing.

Tonight was our first meeting with Len and he told us about the Cabinet of Curiosity and asked us to all tell about something in our homes in our cabinets. We were to name something that is curious and unique to our marriage relationship … maybe something we collect together or something we saved over the years or something that describes us. What a neat way to think about that! Of course, it may not be kept in the traditional piece of furniture but more symbolic of a curio cabinet treasure.

We told about our collection of Coca Cola cans that began on our honeymoon off the coast of Venezuela when we purchased a box of Pop-Tarts and Coke with Spanish writing on the cans. Ever since then we’ve been collecting International Coca Cola cans. Friends have even given us cans to add to our collection on display on a table in the foyer of our house.

Another item in our cabinet of curiosity began with the groom’s cake at our wedding. It was in the shape and design of a football field with Alabama Crimson Tide on one side and Florida Gators on the other side. In honor of our college football fever, we have a spirit box loaded with Alabama and Florida stuff.

children’s ministers

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Ministry to all families

As a Family Minister, I’ve always tried to provide various ministry resources to every member of the family. In the past it has been easier to define the family: mom, dad, children, grandparents. However, today’s family can be much more difficult to define.

In my daily work schedule, I see many types of families: two-parent families, single-parent families, families headed by grandparents, families headed by aunts and uncles, and other family heads as well. Each of these families needs guidance and support and resources to help them raise the children in their care. The church must step up and take a stronger stand on helping to provide those resources. Churches need to reach out in a non-church setting in order to reach some of those families.

In the June 2008 issue of HomeLife Magazine, there is a article by Denise George, titled “All By Myself.” She outlines 7 things churches can do to minister and provide resources for single moms. Churches can provide Bible studies, enlist couples to teach classes together, bring women together, encourage women to mentor other women, organize retreats, provide practical help, and pray daily.

These are all fantastic ways churches can minister to single moms and non-traditional families; however, churches need to go outside the church walls with these methods. They need to host a class in another location, maybe in a coffee shop. They need to encourage families to mentor other families in their neighborhoods or in playgroups. It is important that families do not alienate these non-traditional families by criticizing their families; they must offer them support and resources to help them to raise their children in moral and Godly ways. Through these mentoring relationships and daily prayers, God will speak to each one of these families in His own unique way.

Payday

For stay-at-home moms, it’s payday .